Sympathy For the Driver

Today's advice is how to be a courteous passenger. Gas prices have come down, but they are still up there. So anyone willing to drive you is a good friend. Be a good passenger.

Rule number one, don't jack with the radio. If you are too lazy to drive, then don't complain about the music. I was raised driver picks the tunes in the car. If you want to listen to something else, feel free to ask. Just don't hijack the radio. Never change the station or adjust the volume with out asking first. It's rude.

Rule number 2, if driver has to stop for gas to take you somewhere, offer to pitch in. I am not saying pay for the whole tank of gas, but at least pitch in a few dollars. Even if they were going anyway. I have forgotten to do this on occassion & always felt like an idiot after.

Rule number 3, if you are picky about the route that should be taken, give notice. Nothing more annoying than someone who is not an effective navigator. It is totally irritating to be expected to drive somewhere you have never been with someone who has been there before & won't give proper directions. If you don't know exactly how to get somewhere & YOU won't drive, then get the address & map it for the person who is. Those of you who offer up 17 different ways to get where you are going en route are just as annoying. Pick a way & let us try that. Unless we are trying to get around traffic, you are only confusing the situation.

Rule number 4, if you know a person's driving is unnerving to you. Drive yourself. I am a horrible driver. My buddy Brett has fully admitted he will never ride with me again. that's cool with me. he never said a word while he was in the car. Too busy praying. I am much better now that I drive the Short Round. But still not the best driver ever. Hubby never wants to drive, but ALWAYS complains about my driving when we go places together. Makes me want to drive into on coming traffic. FYI the only time we were nearly seriously injured in a vehicle, HE was driving. I'm just sayin'.

Rule number 5, don't aggravate the driver. Again, this person is doing you a favor, be considerate.

Now I am not suggesting the driver gets to be all Driver-zilla & is the only one with any consideration. I am saying anyone driving in traffic, so you don't have to deserves a little kindness.